i recently suffered an ear infection (in fact, i'm still having the ear infection, gotta go to the doctor for a second dose of medication).
it came with the normal, earache, low grade fever, hearing loss (ear canal was swollen, hence the hearing loss), and occasional zingy ear cramps.
what was amazing was the acute sounds i hear when things comes in contact with my head. i can't really hear when people are speaking into my infected ear, but what i hear when the water from the shower hits my head, or when i'm scratching my face or when i'm chewing on something, is quite out of this world. the best i can describe it is it sounds like as if my whole head is in an airtight box and the sounds are echoed and magnified. it's so loud, so clear and so acute.
pretty cool actually.
Tuesday, February 22, 2005
Tuesday, January 18, 2005
comfy in your skin
as i was looking through the papers 2 days back, i saw some photos featuring a couple of my old classmates. these are people that i have not seen for more than 10 years. if it's not for the captions under the photos, i would never in a million years be able to guess that it was them.
one was them looked as though butter can't melt in her mouth. too picture perfect, too polish, and yes, she looks just as snooty and vain as she did back in school. so freakin plastic! must be the botox that preserved the tight-assed look that she perfected in school.
now, the second lady was certainly a surprise. she used to be such a naughty and mischievous kid back then, you know, the one who collects black marks and detention and couldn't give two hoots about it. now she looks like one tai-tai or mak datin, one that goes the whole nine yards! but i must say she does look good, a vast improvement from the 'old' look.
from the looks of it, it seems that these ladies dress and look like that all the time. morning, noon, evening and night. oh boy, sheer torture i'm sure.
i do not envy the two of them. i feel as though they are puppets of society. do they actually enjoy the whole process of dolling up? doubt it. come on, i'm a woman, i know what it's like. i do admit that there are times when we want to look great and we take the trouble to put together the perfect ensemble, matching accessories, the warpaint, the right scent, basically the whole works. but everyday? i don't think so.
there are days when you just wanna pull on that well worn pair of jeans and a top and just hang out with friends.
at the end of the day, it all depend on us being comfortable in our own skin. when you know that you can walk out of the house without a hint of make up, dressed in your most comfortable clothes and still feel confident enough to walk into a high-class mall and purchase some prada or mont blanc or even just a cup of coffee without even thinking of what the salesperson think of you, then my friend, you are comfy in your skin.
one was them looked as though butter can't melt in her mouth. too picture perfect, too polish, and yes, she looks just as snooty and vain as she did back in school. so freakin plastic! must be the botox that preserved the tight-assed look that she perfected in school.
now, the second lady was certainly a surprise. she used to be such a naughty and mischievous kid back then, you know, the one who collects black marks and detention and couldn't give two hoots about it. now she looks like one tai-tai or mak datin, one that goes the whole nine yards! but i must say she does look good, a vast improvement from the 'old' look.
from the looks of it, it seems that these ladies dress and look like that all the time. morning, noon, evening and night. oh boy, sheer torture i'm sure.
i do not envy the two of them. i feel as though they are puppets of society. do they actually enjoy the whole process of dolling up? doubt it. come on, i'm a woman, i know what it's like. i do admit that there are times when we want to look great and we take the trouble to put together the perfect ensemble, matching accessories, the warpaint, the right scent, basically the whole works. but everyday? i don't think so.
there are days when you just wanna pull on that well worn pair of jeans and a top and just hang out with friends.
at the end of the day, it all depend on us being comfortable in our own skin. when you know that you can walk out of the house without a hint of make up, dressed in your most comfortable clothes and still feel confident enough to walk into a high-class mall and purchase some prada or mont blanc or even just a cup of coffee without even thinking of what the salesperson think of you, then my friend, you are comfy in your skin.
Monday, January 17, 2005
daddy n dad
i recently got married and now i have a daddy and a dad. daddy being my own father and dad, my father-in-law.
they have such different personalities and yet i find many similarities. daddy is quiet and reserved, whereas dad loves to talk and have parties. daddy is allergic to alcohol and dad enjoys getting 'spiritual'. and the list goes on.
the common ground is that they both come from the same school and are whole-heartedly loyal to their alma mater. the school rally was ingrained in me since i was six by my father and i can't even remember my own school songs!! and guess what, my husband is from the same school!
loyal they may be to their place of learning, that's where this particular similarity stops. one is fiercely proud of his alma mater and the other had never 'left' the school. he taught there, and even though he is retired, the place where he spent most of his life is cemented into his heart and his soul. his immediate family might not like the idea of 'his' school taking precedent over them, and i can understand why. but seeing him interacting with his former students, and how they revere him, paints a totally different picture.
there are also similarities in their core behaviour as well. both are men of very strong principles, quick witted and armed with tongues like the samurai's sharpest sword. their level and comprehension of the english language (the queen's english, mind you. to them the is no other kind) is so extensive that to hold a serious conversation with them, most of us might need to have a dictionary close-by.
they are of the conservative era, but it sometimes amazes me to experience their openmindedness and acceptance of modern day practices.
when it comes to their own, they are both slow to praise but expects the best (especially in the aspects of educational achievements, choice of friends, moral standings, and so on and so forth. then again, most parents do have this common trait). as we grow older, we slowly learn to recognize the glitter in their eyes that symbolizes their pride. they may not speak of it, not to our face at least, but sometimes all it takes for us is that split-second look. that's why when i have made a personal milestone, i peer really hard at my father to see if i can catch that telltale sign.
now, these are men whose children will learn to appreciate only when they've grown mature enough. they are not easy to understand. in fact i realise that my daddy had always treated me as an adult. therefore he's always expected me to be mature enough to make the correct decisions. but being a kid, i always, always made the kiddy one i.e the wrong one. i hated the veto power he had over everything i did.
there was a time when i did not speak to him for months. didn't even acknowledge his presence even though he was right there beside me. and when day of reconciliation came, i saw my father cry for the first time in my life and at that point i knew, he is a human being, a mere man, and not a demi God. he is a man. he too cries. he's my father.
they have such different personalities and yet i find many similarities. daddy is quiet and reserved, whereas dad loves to talk and have parties. daddy is allergic to alcohol and dad enjoys getting 'spiritual'. and the list goes on.
the common ground is that they both come from the same school and are whole-heartedly loyal to their alma mater. the school rally was ingrained in me since i was six by my father and i can't even remember my own school songs!! and guess what, my husband is from the same school!
loyal they may be to their place of learning, that's where this particular similarity stops. one is fiercely proud of his alma mater and the other had never 'left' the school. he taught there, and even though he is retired, the place where he spent most of his life is cemented into his heart and his soul. his immediate family might not like the idea of 'his' school taking precedent over them, and i can understand why. but seeing him interacting with his former students, and how they revere him, paints a totally different picture.
there are also similarities in their core behaviour as well. both are men of very strong principles, quick witted and armed with tongues like the samurai's sharpest sword. their level and comprehension of the english language (the queen's english, mind you. to them the is no other kind) is so extensive that to hold a serious conversation with them, most of us might need to have a dictionary close-by.
they are of the conservative era, but it sometimes amazes me to experience their openmindedness and acceptance of modern day practices.
when it comes to their own, they are both slow to praise but expects the best (especially in the aspects of educational achievements, choice of friends, moral standings, and so on and so forth. then again, most parents do have this common trait). as we grow older, we slowly learn to recognize the glitter in their eyes that symbolizes their pride. they may not speak of it, not to our face at least, but sometimes all it takes for us is that split-second look. that's why when i have made a personal milestone, i peer really hard at my father to see if i can catch that telltale sign.
now, these are men whose children will learn to appreciate only when they've grown mature enough. they are not easy to understand. in fact i realise that my daddy had always treated me as an adult. therefore he's always expected me to be mature enough to make the correct decisions. but being a kid, i always, always made the kiddy one i.e the wrong one. i hated the veto power he had over everything i did.
there was a time when i did not speak to him for months. didn't even acknowledge his presence even though he was right there beside me. and when day of reconciliation came, i saw my father cry for the first time in my life and at that point i knew, he is a human being, a mere man, and not a demi God. he is a man. he too cries. he's my father.
Saturday, January 08, 2005
we go back.. waaaay back
recently met up with a friend that i have not seen for yonks. and when i say yonks, i really mean yonks.
it was so great coz the reception i got when i walked into his place of work was a bunch of adorable dogs just running up to you and my, they are soooo friendly!!
rufus has grown soooo big! still so cute.
ok, back to my friend. kev is an old buddy that i've known for more than ten years. we don't see each other very often, but somehow or rather, i never feel awkward or out of place each time i see him. we just pick up where we left off.
there has been ups and downs in both our lives, as well as friends that have moved on with their own lives. do we reminisce? seldom. we just catch up on our own lives and loved ones.
kev's doing something really great, i heard that on weekends he brings over some pets to some homes and let the underprivileged kids have a feel of what it's like to have an animal companion. now, this is not a one time thing. it goes on and on. and when the kids are capable of living live on their own, they leave the home but they've got a companion trotting next to them. ain't that cool!?
kudos to kev and all involved.
great to see you again kev.
it was so great coz the reception i got when i walked into his place of work was a bunch of adorable dogs just running up to you and my, they are soooo friendly!!
rufus has grown soooo big! still so cute.
ok, back to my friend. kev is an old buddy that i've known for more than ten years. we don't see each other very often, but somehow or rather, i never feel awkward or out of place each time i see him. we just pick up where we left off.
there has been ups and downs in both our lives, as well as friends that have moved on with their own lives. do we reminisce? seldom. we just catch up on our own lives and loved ones.
kev's doing something really great, i heard that on weekends he brings over some pets to some homes and let the underprivileged kids have a feel of what it's like to have an animal companion. now, this is not a one time thing. it goes on and on. and when the kids are capable of living live on their own, they leave the home but they've got a companion trotting next to them. ain't that cool!?
kudos to kev and all involved.
great to see you again kev.
Friday, December 31, 2004
ushering in a brand new year
this will be my first new year as a wife. i recently got married and at midnite i'll be ushering the new year with the man of my life.
there have been recent events that saddens the heart. tsunami.even if for the grace of God i wasn't personally affected by the tragedy, i couldn't find any happiness or joy for the upcoming new year. then i read my sister-in-law's blog and it was uplifting. her writing made me see things from another angle. give a hand to the unfortunate and in turn heal ourselves.
thanks girl.
there have been recent events that saddens the heart. tsunami.even if for the grace of God i wasn't personally affected by the tragedy, i couldn't find any happiness or joy for the upcoming new year. then i read my sister-in-law's blog and it was uplifting. her writing made me see things from another angle. give a hand to the unfortunate and in turn heal ourselves.
thanks girl.
my sisters-in-law's posts
i took a look see at my sisters-in-law's posts and it amazes me the way they write that to a point, it moved me to tears. it felt as tho i'm just there in their minds and i'm absorbing all these words and feelings. it's surreal
kudos to the amazing ladies
kudos to the amazing ladies
Tuesday, December 28, 2004
Hubster's toesies
Hubster's toesies
Originally uploaded by purpleorchid.
this was my hubster's toes taken when he was having some downtime during our lil getaway. it's so great to see him relax as he is always so busy and on-the-go with his work. many people can't understand why he works so hard and have no time for anyone or anything else. it's okay, i understand... love you hubs
Saturday, December 25, 2004
little getaway
had a little getaway with my hubster. it was so amazing, couldn't believe that such a tranquil, peaceful place could exist just 30 mins away from the hustle and bustle.
we had our little chalet by the lakeside, and there were fruit trees all around. in our chalet we had technology of present day, including wireless broadband connection.
we are definitely going back for more.
we had our little chalet by the lakeside, and there were fruit trees all around. in our chalet we had technology of present day, including wireless broadband connection.
we are definitely going back for more.
Sunday, December 19, 2004
the walk down the aisle
i walked down the aisle yesterday. it was truly, truly most amazing.
to be led by my father to the man of my dreams, the rest of the world just disappeared at that moment. nothing else existed, only us, me and the men of my life.
to be led by my father to the man of my dreams, the rest of the world just disappeared at that moment. nothing else existed, only us, me and the men of my life.
Friday, December 17, 2004
ibook for christmas
i got my ibook yesterday! hubster bought it for me as a christmas present! he he he
soooo cooool...
got a great deal, the christmas promotion that was running included a free airport for all ibook purchase.
now i got an ibook AND my internet access is wireless PLUS i can do wireless printing and the airport connects my music to the hifi system as well, so whatever i play from my playlist is channelled to the hifi system. he he he...
i guess my husband is more excited about the whole ibook and the airport... he's set up everything the moment we got home and he's still discovering all the new things, his favourite phrase for the past 2 days is " check this out! check this out! " and " it's sooooo coool!! "
that's all folks. good nite
p.s. and yes, i am blogging this on my brand new ibook
soooo cooool...
got a great deal, the christmas promotion that was running included a free airport for all ibook purchase.
now i got an ibook AND my internet access is wireless PLUS i can do wireless printing and the airport connects my music to the hifi system as well, so whatever i play from my playlist is channelled to the hifi system. he he he...
i guess my husband is more excited about the whole ibook and the airport... he's set up everything the moment we got home and he's still discovering all the new things, his favourite phrase for the past 2 days is " check this out! check this out! " and " it's sooooo coool!! "
that's all folks. good nite
p.s. and yes, i am blogging this on my brand new ibook
Tuesday, December 14, 2004
i want! i want!
went shopping for some stuff for the wedding prep today. there was a mac shop at the mall we were at.
initially, we were actually looking for an ipod. but i had to go and look at the ibook section, you know, just look see look see......
i saw the ibook G4. soooo nice...
as i was actually looking to buy a notebook anyway, i thought "hmmmm.."
can't really afford a powerbook, but the ibook looks goooood. and within my price range!
guess what am i getting for christmas this year...
initially, we were actually looking for an ipod. but i had to go and look at the ibook section, you know, just look see look see......
i saw the ibook G4. soooo nice...
as i was actually looking to buy a notebook anyway, i thought "hmmmm.."
can't really afford a powerbook, but the ibook looks goooood. and within my price range!
guess what am i getting for christmas this year...
Monday, December 06, 2004
wedding preps
sometimes when you hear about the preparation that needs to be done by a close friend or a relative for their wedding, you'd say "i'll never be so unprepared. i'll start early"
well, start early is what we did but yet there is still loads to do, not to mention all the additional stress that all those inconsiderate people will pile on, thinking only of their own well being and sense of fun.
all the big-time and important prep is done, but the small fry ones are the ones that cause the most headache. the last minute additions, the small unforseen items, the little decisions...... ohh man!
sometimes i can understand why people take a wedding vacation rather than having a big do to announce to all relatives and friends.
it feels like the do is to please everyone else but the newlyweds. think about it...
well, start early is what we did but yet there is still loads to do, not to mention all the additional stress that all those inconsiderate people will pile on, thinking only of their own well being and sense of fun.
all the big-time and important prep is done, but the small fry ones are the ones that cause the most headache. the last minute additions, the small unforseen items, the little decisions...... ohh man!
sometimes i can understand why people take a wedding vacation rather than having a big do to announce to all relatives and friends.
it feels like the do is to please everyone else but the newlyweds. think about it...
Tuesday, November 16, 2004
teddy
teddy
Originally uploaded by purpleorchid.
tequila's teddy
met tequila at jinxy's. tequila is one spoilt princess. she's greedy, vain, big time attention seeker and snooty. and she's only six!!!
on the other hand, she's adorable, funny, cute and can be really manja. you can't help but love her, especially when someone is eating and she justs looks at you hoping for a bite. oh those big brown eyes!
it takes awhile for her to get to know you, she's normally quite unreceptive at first, but give tequila a little time and attention, she'll jump all over you. we all love her......
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